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Response to a Christian Teen Saying she needed to spend time with a Minister a Real one at that lol

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I agree with you on the God 1 too but people are put in your life for a season and often when u get to caught in those persons be it Ministry, family, or friend they can hurt its human nature some things are done on purpose (not U & Minister X b/c I only know what you told me cause X has not mentioned u to me).

Often we put our trust in man and forget that the Bible clearly says that we need not make others out of gods in the sense that we always need to hear from them, get their advice or see their comments or else we feel alone b/c we fail to spend time with God.
Spend time with God & allow Him to Minister to you b/c more than likely you will get swept away in the persons anointing or their opinions of what you must and should do for your, but truth be told they fail at getting their own life in order. On the surface they seem to have it all together, but they don’t, and then when the person is tired or sick or frustrated their anointed leaves because they need pouring into and you may or may not be that person to help them to replenish. MINISTERS get drained when all you do is drain them!

Spend more time with God so people can’t so easily hurt you with what they believe is truth, and often folks hurt you b/c you never get to say your peace the friendship ends with no explanation, hence an agonizing feeling of abandonment sets in and you continue to reach out to them with no results, thereby causing yourself more pain. Look within because truly mylove everything you need is stick within you.
Being a Christian isn’t easy but when you put yourself in a position to be loved and your heart is fragile like most of our hearts then it gets hurt or damaged, but if we continued to live life hollering, complaining, and screaming (and trust me I have done my share of it all) whether on but NOT on Facebook, in person or silently, yes. Eventually, we will surely come to a breaking point and experience a turning point because they existed in our life. There resistance to your love, friendship is okay, so let it go, often you can be draining and a little overwhelming to most and don’t know it.

Furthermore, the reason God put PEOPLE here was to love us, and unfortunately they will hurt us too, so sweetie learn to guard your heart and stop giving all of you away all the time! They hurt us, and often we hurt them too without knowing. All our pain can be used to make us stronger if re-channeled properly. Our hurts and pains this world has offered us becomes our ministry, where we can be used to help someone else become who they are supposed to be, NOW.

At the end of the day we want to point blame at others, but we as Christians, we MUST get off the breast milk and get some strong meat, thereby owning the part we played whether good or bad. I barely respond to anyone ignorant Facebook cries unless it seems suicidal, which is a book that’s rated R for WordPress. Most don’t respond to my post or care for me to post on their pages because my comments are usually filled with a lot of truth, and it ain’t (yes ain’t) personal but as a Writer, I call it as I see it and people take it the wrong way; 1) I HATE DRAMA & CONFUSION, so this is my DISCLAIMER: I AM COMMENTING ON THE PAIN & FRUSTRATION & HURT (I read in your tone) because I ONCE WAS THERE WHEN I LOOKED UP TO PEOPLE AND HAD THEM ON CERTAIN LEVELS IN MINISTRY, LIFE, AND GUESS WHAT THEY HURT ME.

As a direct result, I was fragile and easily broken, so I left the church, which only stunted my growth both naturally and spiritually, so when you say you need to spend a week with a Minister this isn’t true what you need is to Minister to self and stop looking for other humans to rescue. Learn to get an open ear to Gods voice, so you NEVER have to rely on others.

Spending time alone with God by praying, seeking his face, thus hearing from Him and NOT seeking the attention of PEOPLE. It is nothing wrong with counsel, but when you are way too needy it is detrimental to your personal relationship with God. You need to get to the truth, and get to the core of why you think you need a MINISTER to order your steps.

When We in the Body of Christ, we are ministers (Not speaking of Preachers or Reverend’s) as long as we are walking in our gifts.

If we stay away from the unclean thing then we will not need to keep running back to our own dung, take what you feel you can use and leave what you can’t, but I desire to see you grow and let go of the pain and stop reaching out to someone who you say hasn’t responded to you in months. Prehaps you & Minister X’s misunderstanding was her breaking point, stop hurting you, others, and Heal-Thyself from you, and the people you allow to harm you, and then you will be FREE indeed.

This comes from a place of LOVE, so at the end of the day guess what you live in this world and if you try to shut people out it; it will back fire on you because God is love (AGAPE~Godly Love), and yeah his mind doesn’t change because he doesn’t have to deal with the human side of US & sweetie, YES PEOPLE CHANGE, we ALL DO or at least we should, it’s called GROWTH, RENEWAL and DEVELOPMENT. What Minister X & I have said more than once on Facebook, certain things and situations WE WILL NOT TOLERATE @ 40 years old, so perhaps that is her turning point.

When you consider certain people your mentors be it a MINISTER or a WRITER, SINGER, or a NEWSPAPER DELIVERY MAN, girl LIFE simply HAPPENS, and THINGS CHANGE as does its situations and hurt people hurt people but at the end of the day we are all human and often pride keeps us in bondage coupled with stagnation.

And BTW I don’t think your COMMENT is WRONG but pretty immature, so be careful how you talk and put your mouth on God’s Minister’s until you have walked in their shoes. You should never put your mouth on them & I am not just saying this because MINISTER X is my first Cousin, but because that’s Bible, and it is so out of order plus you knew I would comment, which is why you put your, and I don’t care what anyone thinks.

Okay, so stop professing you love the Lord one day and the next day you cussing folks out and hollering and screaming, Facebook isn’t the place for that. Buy a personal journal for that because at the end of the day, I thought we were ALL on the same team, TEAM GOD~1 Up!.


Posted by on December 13, 2010 in Blog this..


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Plant good seeds of faith, hope, love and charity & obtain your harvest, NOW!~Daphne Dwritewell Williams

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Daphne Williams Plant good seeds b/c UR SOIL is RICH, the HARVEST shall come. Don’t be anxious for NOTHING. Walk in Expectation, GIVE BIRTH to IT! Men U 2 can get Pregnant with purpose/hope/passion/vision simply P.U.S.H PRAY UNTIL SOMETHING HAPPENS then read the B.I.B.L.E when U seem a little lost, B/C surely it is THE BASIC INSTRUCTIONS BEFORE LEAVING EARTH & HAVE NO F.E.A.R BECAUSE its FALSE EVIDENCE APPEARING REAL!!!

I Posted this on my facebook page March ,  2010


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Regretting this question: What will your IGNORANT FACEBOOK Post Read Tomorrow? SMH (Shaking My Head)

  Some of the posts on Facebook are simply horrible, and the worst part is when you share the same DNA with the ignorant poster. Be careful Facebooker’s BIG BROTHER is watching,  so is BIG MOMMA & Daddy too, your employer, and potential employers.

I pray that your spelling on State Examinations (College Essays) aren’t as ignorant  as your ranting on your page. I deleted so many people in the last couple of weeks, and hide the rest.

FYI: “Just  because you are an adult does mean you need to show your ignorance in such a public forum. Teenagers (who faked their age to get online), simply because its your page doesn’t mean you have to act your shoe size.”

Are schools still teaching phonics because when these ignorant Facebooker’s aren’t breaking verbs, cussing out their momma’s for asking them to get off of Facebook to study they’re dropping the F Bomb like they are in a war within the school ‘elementary’ yard, and spinning nouns on its shoulder blades scraping compound words into phrases because they are lazy!

These Facebooker’s are inventing a new vocabulary worst than anything I have ever heard, and trust me you will not want your newborn reciting their ABC’s. 

Perhaps their lingo should be called lack of phonics or IG-NOR-ONICS. Okay don’t get me wrong, along with my mom, I know a little Internet short cuts, and slang with texting (the short-hand of send a message) lingo craze, but I am afraid if I begin to write this way (shortening the english language for IG-NOR-ONICS), I will then have allowed technology to dumb me down, and then be forced to share a cubicle with paper cuts at a deadend job too, and/or perhaps at the window saying how may I take your order simply to make end meet. NOT HERE, NOT EVER, Unlike you I create my own options and chatting on Facebook with you isn’t one of them nor being subjected to annoying rants, outburst, so you have been deleted, and don’t call asking me why!!! 


Although as a teen, I never worked for fast food restaurant’s. If you need a job, fast food places are cool-it all depends on you, and your community, and the outreach youth leaders therein-, but I believe you don’t, and should never settle to work at fast food spots if you don’t have  to. As you may or may not know if you continue to post ignorance on “Social Networking Sites”; fast food jobs may not be available to you either in your future. Be ever so careful of what you post on these sites since it can come back to bite. What future are you carving out for yourselves if all you do with your precious time is rant and rave about nothing on facebook. Complaining about your job will eventually lead to you being unemployed either because of the negative energy you put out in Cyber-land or because your boss was your Facebook friend. Be reminded that once it is out there it is on a blog, and/or website forever! 

Some people are online going crazy over celebrities, I have my favorites, but let us all be real. Some rappers have some of the dumbest lyrics ever created. Most of  the songs are cool but come on must you post the entire backwards song that speaks of your downfall (and disrespecting Jesus) if you don’t become like the rapper you are holding in high esteem. At some point you might need to get a life! Whatever happened to football in the snow, shooting the breeze, the dozens/ranking, a board game, and a good old fashion teenage fun. Okay perhaps you are online gaming, so create a new game as an application developer; leverage your time, and online experience by getting paid to be online, shop, and share I am just saying DUDE!

Seriously speaking are you ever planning on contributing something good and well worth speaking about when the social networking sites are all networked out. Consider posting something that ignites the brain to think and reproduce something creative that will never depreciate.

Often it may hurt hard, but try to think twice before posting the first DUH moment/blurbs that come to mind. You are only using a small percentage of your brain, and you wonder why you are always bored, fatigued, and hungry.

 You are nutritionally depriving your brain; it’s a muscle that works better when you use it properly, and positively. You are constantly bored because you haven’t put anything good or inspirational into you cortex but garbage so I guess this  answers my first question of  your next post. Guess I can expect more trash from your garbage disposal like brain. Time for another page sweep, delete, delete, delete, hide YOU!

Trust me in a couple of years the things that matter now won’t later, but to your employer it just might, because most employers don’t tolerate ignorance in others only in themselves…lmbo (Laughing My Butt OFF)



Posted by on February 26, 2010 in Facebook Ignorance


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Wow…Can U believe folk are arguing on Facebook…OMG…lmbo Written by Daphne D. Williams 12/11/2009




OMG, can you believe folk are arguing on facebook. Does anyone remember its called social networking not the elementary schoolyard park at 3pm with the protective vaseline smeared on your face (to avoid scratches after the fight).

Some of the posts that I have read on have consisted of folks cussing out their momma’s to disowning their aunties-the one who use to feed them, and ummm excuse me, whatever happened to being discreet & not airing all the family’s dirty laundry-.

Another knuckle head posted “I am bored!” WOW, I have an idea; how about trying  going to another world the old fashion way by reading a book or an article on:


WARNING: to all of Corporate America, a percentage of your employees are stealing time while at work because they are on FACEBOOK all day long, and are doing overtime so they can post on facebook…this is so disgraceful.

One woman claims to be addicted to facebook and was going to take a couple of days off from work since the IT specialist hasn’t fixed the computers (internet service). She then brags about how stupid her boss is, and how much time she spends facebooking. Simply incredible!

I must admit I enjoy facebooking but I am no fiend like some folks, and yes I do have a lot of family photos, networks, and posts within my friend group. I tend to write in a logic-type voice in which most hate to hear because social networking should be relaxing-I am often told-, and I agree but DO NOT, I repeat DO NOT subject me to your disgraceful, tacky, ignorant rants especially if you don’t want me to comment, PERIOD!

Excuse me facebookers could we please use some sort of  etiquette online. If your friend logs in to his/her account; it IS NOT an automatic signal for you to instantly pop-in, and begin chatting (then get an attitude when they don’t respond please find something to do with your precious time and stop being a pain!) with them, and for goodness sake if you have their telephone number DO NOT CALL THEM BECAUSE THEY ARE ONLINE! PLEASE, PLEASE DO NOT BE A FACEBOOK STALKER FIEND, so unnecessarily not cool!!!

OMG (Oh My Goodness, one girl broke up with her boyfriend on facebook after three years of dating on her posts (did she ever respect the relationship or was he that annoying or threatening that she couldn’t do it in person). I know that had to hurt. Okay this one beats the facebook ignorant cake of all time, OMG, I had to reply to this one, okay one individual wrote how much money it would cost to get his little cousin out of the county jail for his lack of paying his baby momma the child support he is required to pay for their child, go figure. All I could do was post SMH (Shake My Head).

Some people use facebook in a way that will eventually catch up with them. Others will benefit from using it for business purposes. One question, What are folk truly thinking with these ridiculous posts? Do folk really think that employers, parents, new friends, and potential college board members aren’t monitoring your ignorant posts. Perhaps I need to teach, give a seminar or a workshops on the rules for social networking with its key do’s & dont’s.

Okay one business associate of mine said this one individual began face book stalking her, and then began requesting her friends to be her friend and then began trashing her putting her personal business on front street(World Wide Web). Of course this individual was annoyed and frustrated, thus reported her to facebook administrators and the company she was supposedly representing. What I have noticed that irregardless of the forum be it in person or online some folks don’t have any tact, logic, and as we all may know by now common sense isn’t too common lately at least not in the home of these social networking fiends.

Personally I have had to hide some of my facebook friends posts or delete them altogether. It is just some folk, I don’t want to be associated with especially as I am branding ME Dwritewell. As a writer, I writewell and I refuse to be affiliated with folk who have no tact and post all kind of cuss words, disgraceful personal and sexual videos, so stop requesting after I have deleted you and your momma.

At first it truly bothered me so much I’d go in on folk and their posts because it was on my page therefore I can make a comment, lately I simply delete them, ignore their ignorance or permanetanly hide them from my posts list. I am building a wellness business Getfit, a writing business & me as a business writing strategist, and if their posts isn’t informative, I simply leave them where they are in a state of DUHHHH.

Facebooking & twittering with a message to reshape change is cool and basically FREE advertising for your online businesses. Exiting Facebook feeling good about the information I have shared today with a lot of folk who are very immature or simply lost, notwithstanding there are a few folk on facebook not posting useless information like OMG: “I am eating then taking a long bath but I will dry off with a sheet, I am too lazy to do laundry.” Some Unidentified Ranter my response: WHO CARES?!?!

Exit stage…writing well, write now, since I can’t deal with foolishness or the ignorance of some folk online, so I blog.


Posted by on December 12, 2009 in Facebook Ignorance


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